Leadership Talks (With Alli Murphy) Episodes

176: "Is Talking to Your Boss the Same as Talking to a Brick Wall?" ft. Alli Murphy
June 15, 2026

176: "Is Talking to Your Boss the Same as Talking to a Brick Wall?" f…

Alli and Erik work through a familiar leadership bottleneck: a team is burning out, a senior leader brings data and requests support, and the boss keeps asking for more data or dismisses what’s already been presented. Erik fr...

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170: "What Changes When You Start Leading Leaders?" ft. Alli Murphy
June 8, 2026

170: "What Changes When You Start Leading Leaders?" ft. Alli Murphy

Erik and Alli compare notes on what goes wrong when high-performing leaders move from managing individual contributors to leading leaders. They highlight recurring gaps, including losing ground-level visibility, suddenly bein...

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164: "How Do You Engineer Your Exit Without Burning Bridges?" ft. Alli Murphy
June 1, 2026

164: "How Do You Engineer Your Exit Without Burning Bridges?" ft. All…

Erik and Alli talk through what “leaving well” really means, especially when the timing is fixed, the relationship matters, and the environment is imperfect. They focus on practical decisions: defining success for yourself, p...

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160: "What To Do When Your Boss Breaks The Boundaries They Set Themselves?" ft. Alli Murphy
May 25, 2026

160: "What To Do When Your Boss Breaks The Boundaries They Set Themse…

Erik and Alli walk through what a C-suite leader should do when a new CEO breaks an early promise about no weekend or after-hours contact. They frame it as a leadership expectation problem across past, present, and future, th...

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156: "Delegation Without Scaffolding Can Break Your People" ft. Alli Murphy
May 18, 2026

156: "Delegation Without Scaffolding Can Break Your People" ft. Alli …

In this co-hosted episode, Erik and Alli break down how great leaders actually delegate, develop people, and engineer growth opportunities. They explore why most stretch projects fail, how to build “scaffolding” around new re...

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152: "What If Your Team’s Feedback Is the Wake-Up Call You Need?" ft. Alli Murphy
May 11, 2026

152: "What If Your Team’s Feedback Is the Wake-Up Call You Need?" ft.…

What happens when your team tells you that you’re the problem? In this candid, real-world conversation, Erik and Alli unpack one of the most uncomfortable leadership moments: being told your stress is impacting your team. Ins...

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148: "What Do You Do When Your Boss Isn’t Doing Their Job—But You Could?" ft. Alli Murphy
May 4, 2026

148: "What Do You Do When Your Boss Isn’t Doing Their Job—But You Cou…

In this conversation, Erik and Alli unpack a deceptively simple leadership dilemma: Should you step in and do the work to prove you're ready for the next level—or hold back to avoid being taken advantage of? What unfolds is a...

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145: "What Would You Want From Your Manager If You Survived a Layoff?" ft. Alli Murphy
April 27, 2026

145: "What Would You Want From Your Manager If You Survived a Layoff?…

Mass layoffs, uncertainty, and pressure to perform—this conversation tackles one of the hardest realities leaders face: guiding a team through chaos when you don’t have answers yourself. Erik and Alli unpack what leadership a...

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142: "What Happens When Your Team Suddenly Doubles in Size?" ft. Alli Murphy
April 20, 2026

142: "What Happens When Your Team Suddenly Doubles in Size?" ft. Alli…

The rise of the “mega manager” is real—and it’s breaking traditional leadership models. In this conversation, Erik and Alli unpack what happens when managers go from leading 6–8 people to 12–16 (or more), why it’s happening, ...

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139: "What Happens When Efforts Don't Translate to Outcomes?" ft. Alli Murphy
April 13, 2026

139: "What Happens When Efforts Don't Translate to Outcomes?" ft. All…

In this episode, Erik and Alli unpack one of the most frustrating leadership scenarios: when growth outpaces execution—and your team’s hard-earned wins start slipping away. Instead of diving into operational fixes, they go de...

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136: "Should You Avoid or Plan For Conversational Landmines?" ft. Alli Murphy
April 6, 2026

136: "Should You Avoid or Plan For Conversational Landmines?" ft. All…

A real-world leadership scenario sparks a deep, practical conversation between Erik and Alli: how to deliver difficult organizational news that may feel like a step backward for someone—even when it’s the right move. This epi...

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133: "Are You a Great Chaser of Vanity Metrics?" ft. Alli Murphy
March 30, 2026

133: "Are You a Great Chaser of Vanity Metrics?" ft. Alli Murphy

In this conversation, Erik and returning co-host Alli Murphy unpack a subtle but dangerous pattern in modern leadership: we often reward visibility, speed, and activity instead of real impact. What starts as a question about ...

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130: "Can You Tell The Difference Between Growth Stress and Burnout Stress?" ft. Alli Murphy
March 23, 2026

130: "Can You Tell The Difference Between Growth Stress and Burnout S…

In this conversation, Erik and Alli explore a powerful new concept spreading through the workplace: “quiet cracking.” Together they unpack the subtle signals leaders should watch for, the fine line between healthy stress and ...

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127: "Psychological Safety is Making Disagreement Safe" ft. Alli Murphy
March 16, 2026

127: "Psychological Safety is Making Disagreement Safe" ft. Alli Murp…

In this conversation with co-host Alli Murphy, Erik unpacks one of the most misunderstood (and most powerful) leadership dynamics in modern workplaces: psychological safety. From Google’s Project Aristotle to real-life storie...

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124: "Are You Climbing a Ladder You Don’t Even Want to Be On?" ft. Alli Murphy
March 9, 2026

124: "Are You Climbing a Ladder You Don’t Even Want to Be On?" ft. Al…

When Alli Murphy’s “not-an-SVP” LinkedIn post sparked hundreds of comments and DMs, it revealed something deeper: a quiet crisis around success. In this episode, Erik and returning co-host Alli unpack the generational tension...

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121: "What If What Got You here is now Burning You Out?" (ft. Alli Murphy)
March 2, 2026

121: "What If What Got You here is now Burning You Out?" (ft. Alli Mu…

Even high-performing leaders hit walls. In this candid, unscripted conversation, Erik and recurring co-host Alli Murphy unpack something most leaders experience—but rarely admit: the funk. Whether it’s imposter syndrome befor...

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118: "Is There Actually a Playbook for Building Trust as a New Leader?" ft. Alli Murphy
Feb. 23, 2026

118: "Is There Actually a Playbook for Building Trust as a New Leader…

Trust isn’t built by proving you’re right—it’s built by proving you’re safe to work with. In this co-hosted conversation, Erik and Alli unpack what it actually takes to earn trust when you’re new, misunderstood, or quietly do...

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115: "Is Your Once-Greatest Strength Now Holding You Back?" ft. Alli Murphy
Feb. 16, 2026

115: "Is Your Once-Greatest Strength Now Holding You Back?" ft. Alli …

In this co-hosted conversation, Erik Berglund and Alli Murphy explore a deceptively simple leadership trap: when your greatest strength becomes the very thing holding you back. From overthinking and realism to empathy and sel...

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112: "How Should Leaders Manage in Moments of Uncertainty?" ft. Alli Murphy
Feb. 9, 2026

112: "How Should Leaders Manage in Moments of Uncertainty?" ft. Alli …

Uncertainty isn’t new — but leaders still keep making the same mistakes when it shows up. In this candid collab, Erik Berglund and co-host Alli Murphy unpack what not to do when things feel unstable, why our instincts often b...

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109: "How Playing the 'Chief Everything Officer' Role Leads to Burnout" ft. Alli Murphy
Feb. 2, 2026

109: "How Playing the 'Chief Everything Officer' Role Leads to Burnou…

It’s only mid-January, and Erik and Alli are already fielding DMs from high-achievers who are feeling… fried. Instead of the usual New Year buzz, there’s burnout, exhaustion, and the quiet voice saying, “I’m already over it.”...

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106: "SMART Goals vs. Vector Goals: Which One Belongs in 2026?" ft. Alli Murphy
Jan. 26, 2026

106: "SMART Goals vs. Vector Goals: Which One Belongs in 2026?" ft. A…

In this thought-provoking conversation, Erik and Alli explore a noticeable shift in how people are setting goals in 2026. Instead of laser-focused metrics and traditional SMART goals, more people are choosing intentions, dire...

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103: “How to Support a Team Member's Growth Without Undermining It” ft. Alli Murphy
Jan. 19, 2026

103: “How to Support a Team Member's Growth Without Undermining It” f…

In this energizing co-hosted conversation, Erik and Alli kick off 2026 by exploring a subtle but powerful leadership challenge: how to support (rather than sabotage) someone’s attempt to change. Whether it’s a colleague tryin...

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100: "How To Prevent AI from Atrophying Our Brain?" ft. Alli Murphy
Jan. 12, 2026

100: "How To Prevent AI from Atrophying Our Brain?" ft. Alli Murphy

In this timely and thought-provoking conversation, Erik and Alli explore what it means to lead in the age of AI. As team members start working with large language models, AI copilots, and digital assistants, leadership is no ...

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097: "Why Saying 'I Messed Up' is Actually a Superpower" ft. Alli Murphy
Jan. 5, 2026

097: "Why Saying 'I Messed Up' is Actually a Superpower" ft. Alli Mur…

In this episode, Erik and Alli take on a vulnerable leadership dilemma: what do you do when you are the one who needs to change—but your team already knows the old version of you? From elephants in the room to scones and sand...

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