255: "Are You Communicating Accurately Or Just Assuming You’re Heard?" (Reflections On Molly Tschang)

🧠 Erik’s Take This short review mattered because it challenged a habit Erik has seen in leadership and in himself: focusing on what’s being said while ignoring whether the other person is willing and able to participate. He feels Molly’s lens cut through the “better communication will fix everything” storyline. What stuck is the shift from persuasive accuracy to relational conditions, where honest exchange depends on both a speaker’s skill and a listener’s openness. 🎯 Top Insights from the Inte

🧠 Erik’s Take Erik reflects on how the conversation with Jason Lauritsen landed because it challenges a very familiar leadership pattern: treating “connection” like something that happens after work starts, rather than something leaders design before performance expectations are set. What stuck is the inversion. If connection drives motivation, then building relationships and meaning is not a soft add-on. It is upstream management. Erik also feels the discomfort of how often leaders measure what

Erik and Molly dive into the real skill behind “speaking up” and why organizations fail: they don’t have an accurate shared reality—essential to actually make the best decisions, execute, and deliver great outcomes. Molly shares a simple, flexible framework that all professionals can apply: “Me–You–We” and explains how leaders and teams can create mutual understanding, hear tough truths, and turn communication into trust and faster execution. 👤 About the Guest Molly Tschang is a founder of Abe

Erik and Jason Lauritsen dig into what “connection” really means at work, what drives it, and how it translates into motivation, performance, and retention. Jason shares findings from the Human Connection Study, including why “resonance” with purpose can matter more than human-to-human rapport. 👤 About the Guest Jason Lauritsen is CEO of Connected Performance Group and an advisor to leaders who refuse to choose between results and people. He developed Connected Performance Systems and helped pu

🧠 Erik’s Take Erik framed the episode as a leadership question, not a political one: how to lead people who genuinely disagree without losing the thread of what actually matters. He kept coming back to a quiet but demanding discipline, holding convictions while staying curious enough to notice what his own first instincts miss. He also noticed how often organizations confuse novelty for progress, especially in education, and how that pattern can steal attention from fundamentals like reading, ma

🧠 Erik’s Take Erik treats this episode as a strategy debrief, not a tech demo. The part that stayed with him is that AI adoption often fails when businesses chase automation before they diagnose the real bottleneck. He also reflects on how consulting handoffs, while efficient at scale, break down for founder-led companies. That framing leads to his bigger, more vulnerable point: leadership change is about redesigning work without accidentally taking away the experiences people need to grow, make